Archive for November, 2009

Yasmin Health Risks and Lawsuits

Monday, November 30th, 2009

Research performed on healthy, premenopausal women in the Netherlands established that Yaz, Yasmin, and Ocella (generic Yasmin) suffered an inflated risk of venous thrombosis as compared to non-users. The risks were increased as high as fivefold with birth control pills. These studies were published in August 2009. This was only the beginning of the contention surrounding Yaz, Yasmin, and Ocella and the resultant lawsuits to come regarding Yaz side effects.

Bells and whistles went off when women in their 20s and 30s were suddenly falling victim to ischemic stroke and blood clots after being put on Ocella. Vibrant women who were on this brand of contraceptive method for as little as a few months were exhibiting symptoms of major side effects and serious health risks. Cardiovascular injury, organ failure, and blood clots are just some of the serious birth control side effects allegedly experienced by patients put on this oral contraceptive pill.

Females taking Yasmin, Yaz or Ocella to avoid getting pregnant or to treat PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) or severe acne have reportedly withstood severe injury to their health and wellbeing. Although not all pharmaceuticals are one-hundred percent safe, the main topic surrounding Yaz seems to be that the original commercials downplayed the health risks and side effects. This attracted users to the product that may not have taken it otherwise had they been properly informed about the risks posed by Ocella, Yasmin and Yaz.

A Simple Guide to Launching Your First Web Site

Monday, November 30th, 2009

The initial step in launching a web site is deciding on the most appropriate domain name and employing the most appropriate registration for your specific niche. This is not commonly a simple decision making process. Let’s face it, the easiest method of ensuring that your needs are fulfilled is to conduct some painstaking research of domain hosting suppliers by available reviews web site.

When you are going through domain hosting reviews, how to determine what exactly is helpful info and what is not? Before you make any decisions you must determine the features that are most important to your company. A lot of businesses opt to get their Web pages hosted by the same provider they use to register their domain name. Bear in mind, however, that months after your web site has been launched, features such as service will probably become exceedingly significant.

Any feedback featured on a company’s web site simply is not sufficient to base a decision on. To define the most appropriate Web registration for you, you must always get an impartial opinion. Take time to assess a variety domain hosting review sites taking into account what all the customers have to offer. Do you find some of the issues over and over again? What do existing customers think about the company? Is the overall feedback positive or negative?

With any provider, you’ll stumble upon positive and negative comments. It’s sensible to gain access to all reviews with objectivity and take everything into consideration. Of course, the price must be looked at, but it’s crucial to get the best bang for your buck. To help you make a selection here are some questions you may want to address. Does the company extend round-the clock technical support with a toll-free number, can you discover any evidence that they respond rapidly to any issues or questions? Exactly how much bandwidth would your account level be good for? You can negotiate a package providing unlimited hosting and bandwidth, along with all kinds of other perks. Do they offer a convenient way to pay? Are all payments automatic, or could you pay yearly? What sort of support is offered in the case of a server failure?

Ultimately this is up to you, but do what makes sense, do cover the essential investigation, so take care you cross all your t’s. Reading proper reviews will give you the chance of saving tons of time and effort later.

Increase the Force of the Wind by Raising the Tower Upwards

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

Much of the improvement has come from the ability to make a very simple device for very cheap without losing any power. The saving are in the range of 60% to 100% of your electric bill. It’s actually common to save 80% with a modern home wind power generator you can build yourself. The cost is about $200 and often it’s much less than that. As such, harnessing the sun’s energy could be as simple as setting up a solar energy system (with a number of solar panels) and rewiring your home electrical circuit. Wind power, on the other hand, relies on mechanical devices to convert the acquired power to a serviceable form of energy. In the earlier times, windmills use wind power as a way to grind flour and other cereal products. This technology is still being used today in many parts of the world. However, it provides very little power, and certainly is not a good option for home or office. A more successful model is acquiring wind power using wind turbines. The good thing is that you can increase the force of the wind by raising the tower upwards. The higher the tower the greater the wind strength will be – be sure not to raise it too high though, you don’t want the propeller flying off! ? Once you have chosen your site the next step is building the wind propeller / turbine itself. Of course you can always head out and buy one, but by far the more rewarding and cost effective method is to build the wind turbine yourself – and the great news is that this is a lot easier than you think.

THE ROBBER BARON MENTALITY

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

Obviously, we should never condemn the psychologically and spiritually healthy men and women who realize early in life that they have something valuable in the way of intelligence, determination, wealth, ambition, strength or courage to serve society through a sound quid pro quo. There is very little to be gained by becoming a contrarian. The old Rotary motto, whoever serves best, profits most, seems fair enough. Nevertheless, it has become painfully obvious that many anxious and confused Americans have either grown greedy or have been seriously brain washed by the incessant propaganda of the robber barons and their clever spin doctors. Some very powerful and very selfish persons are steering the American Republic toward isolation from the rest of the world and a suicidal collapse. From culturally neurotic anxiety, which Frank Herbert called the little death — to the major self-deception that Ernest Becker named the ultimate human lie — to the narcissistic yearning to steal everything valuable which spiritual leaders call the besetting sin, a clutch of narcissistic robber barons have chosen to sacrifice America and its people to their own ruthless greed.

Normal men and women, those who choose to live at peace with the world and share the benefits of cooperative toil, are usually psychologically and spiritually healthy enough to reject greedy ideologies and narcissistic evil. They are at peace with themselves. Emotionally mature souls who are mature enough to embrace persons of different races, cultures and classes, don’t need delusions of their own cosmic grandeur in order to feel a modicum of self-esteem. Maturing citizens understand that free and independent souls are nurtured largely by the spiritual, political and financial health of their societies. As a result, more and more thoughtful Americans are fearful and resentful of the ruthless schemes now being orchestrated by our new age robber barons. We hate the way that a few ruthless souls are ravaging the American middle class, dominating the world’s wealth and fighting endless preemptive wars in which our sons and daughters are slain to gain obscene wealth and power for a few. Honest patriots, as opposed to flag waving frauds with their wicked agendas, despair of our Republic’s collapse into an American Empire consisting of a few wealthy lords and ladies and a majority of poorly paid plebes for whom blood, toil, tears and sweat form their daily fare.

Obviously, the United States isn’t the first affluent society to self-destruct for the benefit of a ruthless financial, political and religious aristocracy. Of the twenty-two civilizations that left their footprints on the earth, all but two collapsed from their rigid ideologies and destructive myths and the escalating realization of their ordinary people that the meager rewards of their labors weren’t worth the effort needed to win them. The Roman Republic was destroyed by the robber barons of its day, who then held their possessions, power and privileges so tightly that their rigid Empire couldn’t survive when the barbarians came to pillage. Roman slaves, such as Spartacus, then picked up their pitchforks and torches and joined the invaders. Of course, when push comes to shove, there is usually a lean and hungry society waiting in the wings. Our founding patriots patterned the American system after the Roman Republic with added elements from Greek democracy. And because they were cognizant of the dangers posed by the relentless greed of a narcissistic and neurotic minority, the founders developed a system of checks and balances that has now been overturned by our own robber barons and their ruthless vassals. Our anxieties and the existential frustrations that follow, along with the universal human need to blame someone besides ourselves for society’s problems, aren’t the result of fate. Neither are they God’s punishment for enacting gender and civil rights laws to empower women and minorities as many fundamental religious neurotics preach and hate radio bigots rage.

The wicked new American Empire is being created by a cruel cabal of twenty-first century neo-fascist robber barons, no more in number than a single Boeing 747 could carry on a single flight. They are being assisted by their reactionary neo-con politicians and fundamental neo-zealot preachers. Because they yearn to corner all the wealth and power of civilization and to create a theocratic empire in which fundamental Christianity reigns supreme, the wicked triad of plutocrats, politicians and preachers is creating a financial, political and religious disaster of the first magnitude. The robber barons scheme to increase their own privileges even though such selfishness guarantees incessant social turmoil, more and more poor and homeless families, and the sacrifice of our young people in preemptive wars that serve the aristocracy. Of course, no one is greedy simply because he or she is greedy. There are always hidden reasons why some people are driven emotionally to use and abuse other men and women, why they are willing to destroy the American Republic in a raging lust for possessions, prestige and power. The majority of them have great suppurating wounds in their souls that all the wealth and power of the world cannot heal. They are driven to seek spiritual or intangible satisfaction through secular methods and they simply don’t work.

Ernest Becker published an excellent book about the often unconscious and usually self-defeating aspects of human emotions called THE DENIAL OF DEATH. Becker, like Otto Rank before him, revealed how narcissistic delusions about one’s superiority over the rest of humanity, are neurotic overcompensations used by fearful and frustrated persons to quell their hidden feelings of inadequacy. A significant percentage of the men and women who ruthlessly claw their way along in businesses like Enron and Arthur Anderson, in reactionary politics and the military and even the fundamental ministry, are desperately trying to convince themselves they are not really the inept, inconsequential wretches someone powerful and cruel branded them in their formative years.

Neurotic robber barons of all varieties struggle against remaining the powerless and threatened non-entities whom in their secret hearts of hearts, they still feel themselves to be. Such wounded egoists simply cannot find relief by considering themselves merely normal humans Their hidden pain is so severe they must fabricate a pretense of cosmic superiority that seems to place them on pedestals far above the plebian peasants of humanity. In a real sense, most are identifying with the aggressive manipulators of their childhood. Their motto has become, if you cannot defeat the abusers of society, make a major effort to join them. The destruction of the Republic and the creation of an American Empire are wicked defense mechanisms against fears of inferiority used by fearful persons who have forced their way into high places. The continual clawing for possessions, power and prestige is a desperate attempt to escape the clamoring inner demons that flog them on and on. And yet, despite their delusions of grandeur, conspicuous consumption and a lack of compassion, narcissistic abusers must cope with the many vicissitudes of life. As the timeless Greek Tragedies reveal, ruthless power brokers also crash head long into the tragic quartet of human reality. They also must cope with the pain, rage, guilt and the death dread which everyone experiences to some degree but boil up so painfully within the psychological and spiritual unconscious elements of each crippled human soul.

Secular minded men and women who fail to realize that our species evolved with deep metaphysical needs and with consistent spiritual yearnings, who pursue only the pragmatic aspects of life, must constantly work harder and harder in order to feel good about themselves. Powerful narcissists may never ride a grubby bus, drink cheap jug wine or die in a crowded nursing home, but they sacrifice many youthful ideals. Some cripple their marriages with egoistic affairs as Bill Clinton did, try more or less successfully to cope with their angst, bury their aged parents, fail at appearing godlike and become jaded, old and vulnerable, precisely like the poorest plebes they use and abuse for their own benefit. As Clinton confessed recently while promoting his book, all narcissists suffer from a dark and anxious aspect to their souls. Aging and decline and the life-long dread of death and extinction, although usually repressed into the unconscious, are great democratizing levelers. Some fortunate neurotic abusers and psychopaths eventually discover that their compulsive and obsessive pretensions, in the heroic Hellenic sense, are only illusions. Others live their entire lives with few redeeming virtues as they look out for I – MYSELF ALONE, never maturing into authentic and accepting persons spiritually or psychologically. They cannot believe that their fifteen minutes of fame and prestige have no more cosmic significance than summer thunder on the Great Plains.

Alas, it is the duty of existential philosophers, ministers, psychologists and psychiatrists to be a bit paranoid, to peer beneath the surface rather than take at face value the assertions of compulsive men and women who boast of being superior souls on the side of God and the angels.

Existential psychotherapists and philosophers consistently see deep pain, paranoia, rage and aggression simmering within the souls of narcissistic or neurotic persons. Karen Thompson, in her book THE WAR FOR GOD, revealed quite clearly the ego wounds and frustrations swirling within the unconscious aspects of seriously reactionary and fundamental manipulators. She reported that the frozen ideologies of true believers are symptoms of their discontents and their consistent paranoia about dangerous enemies lurking to betray them. She found that there are always serious psychospiritual reasons why some men and women become narcissistic, paranoid and defensive rather than accepting and open to new experiences and relationships. Greedy elites are frozen in their privileges, much as the Bourbon kings of France of whom it was obvious; They learn nothing new and forget nothing old. We must do due diligence in our important choices, but neurotics have over-learned from their early experiences and relationships that life is dangerous, people are dishonest and that one must remain alert and defensive at all times. Neurotics live with a sense of basic distrust about life, and a great many of the spouses and children of egoistic, anxiety driven persons, fare badly when trying to make their own way. Stanley, a psychology major at Olivet College, was the oldest son of a fiercely dominant man from Chicago’s Near North Side who reinvented himself as a very good neurosurgeon. As he did with everyone around him in his raging quest for wealth, significance and privilege, the father smothered Stan in his fierce determination to make the youngster worthy of his superior self. We all make subjective choices and some of them are disastrous, but the men and women who consistently behave egoistically and remain ruthlessly acquisitive, are overcompensating psychologically for their emotional and spiritual wounds. They are using defense mechanisms that lead to a modicum of relief but they also must endure the many conflicts their greed causes. The life-long mantra of narcissistic abusers, including virtually all the robber barons currently creating a ruthless American Empire, is;

More, more, more! Even vast wealth, power and prestige are never enough to give me satisfying feelings about myself — not until society admits to my total satisfaction my rightful place among the godlike nobility whom the grubby plebs of the world must obey and serve. What good is my wealth and power unless I am accepted by the power elite, until there are sufficient numbers of peasants to envy me?

So much of humankind’s hubris becomes self-defeating. Even Benjamin Franklin who loved the sophisticated pleasures of English life and lived in Great Britain for years, trying to break into the aristocracy, finally saw that the self-styled quality folk would never accept him except as a somewhat successful plebian tradesman. It is ironic; had the British upper classes been flexible to accept this competent and charming man who admired them and tried to join in their revels, their descendents might still have considerable influence over an American Commonwealth. As it is, as lickspittle Tony Blair has shown, England has become a quaint little land that is little more than the wagging tail of the Yankee dog. When Franklin finally recognized the aristocratic British scorn of everything American, he came home and became one of the Revolution’s brightest stars.

We can savor deeply the one goblet of sweet red wine life provides men and women. We can begin by investing our youthful potential bestowed by loving but imperfect parents and the flawed American system into purposeful activities and relationships. And even if we have not been as fortunate as some, we can still assume responsibility for our lives and strive to become what we can be. As Viktor Frankl wrote, There is no condition in life that cannot be improved by holding positive attitudes about it. He wrote the classic book, MAN’S SEARCH FOR MEANING, after spending three and a half years trapped in the anteroom of Hell, in the Auschwitz murder factory. Fortunately, as we mature, not even God himself can erase one jot or tittle of each person’s meaningful accomplishments from the Cosmic Record. No teacher obliterates a child’s mastery of the multiplication tables. No surgeon recalls a patient to undo a lifesaving operation. Fleming could not take back his work on penicillin. Neither God nor fate can negate the bounty of Borlaug’s miracle grains that saved more than a billion people from starvation. Whatever good we have created, has been written forever, is our own to savor and cherish as potential which may have been squandered, that we have transformed into reality. It doesn’t matter that we are not supremely creative in every given stage of life. Sometimes we need to rest. But we do have every right to relish joyously the satisfaction given us by the sound accomplishments and the good relationships we have enjoyed. On the other hand. we simply do not have any religious, social or political right to behave as robber barons who rip and tear every personal benefit from everyone else and from the very earth itself.

We really should support the honest people who meet society’s needs every day. One elderly man quipped that the merchants of his city have carried him for so long, he is naming them as his pall bearers. Especially exciting is the tide of global entrepreneurship sweeping across Asia and now swiftly spilling over into Africa and Latin America. It was born when one American educated economist from Bangladesh and a few friends escaped capitalistic orthodoxy long enough to invent a solution to Third World poverty through a system of very small banks. The system is only now reluctantly being copied by executives of the World Bank.

The small group of creative souls is organizing a larger and larger post communistic, post industrial system of rural micro banks that is supplying the ten and twenty dollar start up loans that incredibly have taken huge numbers of Bangladeshi families out of poverty in the last decade. You must remember Bangladesh — the economic black hole of Asia. It is exporting rice and goods now and this generous economist and his team did most of it. This really is back street global economics that work as poor people, mostly women trying to feed and educate their children, borrow enough money to buy bamboo strips and permanent dyes and sea shells and wool scraps from which to create beautiful native crafts and a hundred other products. They then sell them for ten times the income previously offered by the aristocratic money lenders who strangled their lives. Some women have bought a cell phone or two and gone into business as the community telephone lady who, for what we would consider pocket change, can put every person in a village without running water or electricity, in contact with all the knowledge and wisdom of every library and university in the world. Or, for that matter, with a government doctor or a wholesale merchant in a distant city. Given the innate human desire to tinker with nature, to make life a little better, it would appear that this new information revolution is just now shifting into high gear. Of course, it helped that Norm Borlaug, a somewhat atypical Iowa farm boy, first kicked the doors open by developing strains of grain that double or triple each farmer’s yield. The new proto entrepreneurs not only borrow the ten or twenty dollars needed to escape poverty through focusing their family’s energy without the interference of some bureaucracy, they can borrow up to thirty dollars if they really need that much capital to get started. The borrowers collectively own each local micro bank and have stopped asking village money lenders, the aristocracy and clergy for permission to succeed through their own initiative. And who says there are no more miracles when emotionally healthy people are spiritually minded in their quest for self-esteem? Imagine what it feels like to go to sleep at night knowing that you have almost single handedly created a micro banking world network that is making life meaningful for millions of men and women. The default rate is non-existent and the growing prosperity is obvious to everyone.

This is something the World Bank with its grandiose schemes for enriching a few robber barons ignored until forced to follow along. Bank executives always find it more cost effective to finance a consortium of generals, aristocrats and politicians that corners a nation’s traditional water supply and then sells a trickle back to the farmers for half of their annual income. And then they wonder why the peasants come, as Pat Buchanan said, over the hill with torches and pitchforks. Which is what world terrorism is all about and why it is increasing steadily in the era of Global Capitalism.

Courageous politicians who have the moral and spiritual courage needed to reject financing by the manipulative raiders of the fast fading Republic, deserve our support. Unfortunately, they seem to be shrinking in number year after year. Not only has the Republican Party turned violently narcissistic in order to serve the robber barons, much of the Democratic establishment, including Bill Clinton and John Kerry have moved over with them. Perhaps they must in order to be viable candidates in today’s climate of fear, frustration and aggression. Unfortunately, political propagandists have become so effective at pandering to existentially alienated men and women, that many voters consistently support politicians and preachers who are betraying them at every turn through their outright lies, television images and glib ideologies. There is very little objective reality in our political campaigning, everything is artfully spun in order to deceive the fearful, the nave and the culturally neurotic because fear does sell better emotionally than hope in times of change and stress. While normal men and women use language to clarify their intentions, politicians and their mind bending spin doctors have become experts at speaking cleverly to conceal what they believe and to obscure what they are doing. Very little is real, virtually everything has become spin. At a recent press conference, George Bush successively smothered four successive questions he didn’t want to answer and spun them into something different and then answered his own questions with egregious deceptions, He is now claiming he never said that Saddam Hussein and Osama bin Ladin were co-conspirators in the 9/11 attack. Actually, for months during his run up to the Iraq invasion, he scared nave and trusting Americans half to death by naming Hussein the arch terrorist with doomsday weapons that could be used within forty minutes. He pulled so many swift switches with the color code that almost seventy percent of Americans still believe that Iraq rather than Al Qaeda was responsible for the attack. The entire spin system is deeply deceptive, reality is what the propagandists say it is, until they get tripped up and declare that their previous Truth has become inoperative. According to J R R Tolkien who wrote the world class novel about illicit power and greed, THE LORD OF THE RINGS, politicians, preachers and plutocrats who grub incessantly for wealth and power, use so many rationalizations that they lose the ability to distinguish between good and evil. Fact and fantasy and good and bad choices become blurred, all run together in ways that lead to financial and military disasters for the countless nave people they work so hard to deceive.

In his autobiography INSIDER, Joseph Callifano who grew up in a barely middle class family in Brooklyn, New York, tells about a brilliant career that led him to Harvard Law School and to service with Presidents John Kennedy, Lyndon Johnson and Jimmy Carter, along with international fame, considerable wealth and consistent service to humankind. Callifano emphasized that a man or woman who plans on succeeding through their God-given gifts of intelligence, creativity, strength or family fame, needs a moral compass that successfully navigates ambitious persons past the often appealing expedient but ultimately self-defeating choices of life. Otherwise, he said, we are pressed to compromise our values so often that we become prisoners of our own selfishness, becoming consistently self-serving in our well rationalized greed; unable to live a fulfilling spiritual life-style. Callifano testified that he found his moral compass in the spiritual teachings of his church. Many can say the same, although much of the church no longer remains a beacon to light the way for souls crossing the cosmic sea. Many fundamental and orthodox church leaders have compromised their ethical and spiritual integrity by joining reactionary politicians, have focused on a few spectacular issues that distract thoughtless persons from the major problems facing the vanishing middle class and the fast fading Republic.

According to Viktor Frankl and most other existential psychologists, the vast majority of normal persons prefer living a peaceful life with people they love, developing a small corner of the world in which they belong. Very few persons feel compelled to endure the incessant battles needed to acquire great wealth and power. Most of us simply do not have the gnawing neurotic wounds that flog so many robber barons, reactionary politicians and fundamental preachers relentlessly on and on. Contented people realize that while wealth and power may be convenient at times, they are seldom worth the cost one must pay to acquire them. It is deeply disappointing for egoistic men and women to discover, after having expended a lifetime appearing heroic through grubbing for wealth and power, to learn that only the spiritual aspects of life are consistently satisfying. Possessions turn to rust and dust, our power is seized by eager understudies, we become satiated with pleasure and everyone soon moves beyond his or her fifteen minutes of fame. This eventual recognition is why so many people who become weary though excessive consumption cling desperately to a caricature of vigor through trophy lovers, hair transplants, compulsive exercise, botox treatments, Viagra, breast enhancement, face lifts, cryogenic preservation and the like.

Many if not most secular minded narcissists approach the final curtain of life with a major sense of loss: Surely just one lifetime isn’t nearly enough for such a unique and magnificent personage as myself. Even after becoming the most powerful politician in twentieth century France, Charles De Gaulle was overheard muttering late in life; Shipwreck! Shipwreck! My life ends in an absolute disaster. Existential philosophers and psychotherapists such as Soren Kierkegaard, Viktor Frankl, Otto Rank, Carl Rogers, Ernest Becker, Wayne Dyer et al, believe that unless a person has lived spiritually and ethically enough to face the end of life with equanimity, without lingering feelings of guilt and regret, he or she hasn’t become an authentic human, has hardly lived at all. Even one Catholic power broker, a dominant Italian Cardinal within the Vatican Curia, a former candidate for the Papacy, confessed ruefully to a colleague;

If God gave me another life, rather than follow this deceptive and devious route to power, I would pastor a rural parish with just enough theology to preach decent sermons, hear confessions, assign penance and relax on the front steps with a bottle of wine and talk about their prospects with the farmers coming home from the fields and pastures.

Some jaded power brokers eventually seek redemption and an illusion of immortality through belated generosity. The quintessential robber baron Andrew Carnegie built scores of libraries, Carnegie Hall and contributed great sums of money to Carnegie-Mellon University, when he finally realized he could neither consume anything more nor take any of his immense fortune with him. In a yearning for a modicum of immortality, he directed his name be carved in marble over the entrance to every Carnegie Library. I doubt that he cares about his fame any longer. Carnegie was seeking absolution and indeed, he had much of which to repent after a lifetime spent using and abusing his battered and tattered workers as if they were inanimate machines to be discarded when they malfunctioned.

It is obvious that American governance has fallen into the hands of the narcissistic triad of robber barons, reactionary politicians and fundamental and orthodox clergy who betray society by obsessively serving their own interests. The ultimate selfish ideology that leads to greedy consumerism, the fall of the middle class, the death of the Republic and potentially fatal environmental disasters was found initially in the seminal THE WEALTH OF NATIONS from the eighteenth century. It can be summed up this way.

When every selfish person or organization subordinates morals and ethics to net worth, when every ruthless power broker and narcissistic manipulator insists that greed is good and rips everything valuable from weaker persons and from the earth itself, when companies, governments and political parties take every advantage of each subordinate, leaving the people with only enough of the profits of production to survive and to work ever harder without retirement programs, social security, medical care, good schooling and decent housing, the wonderful free market magic starts working. In some miraculous manner, perhaps like the loaves and fishes Jesus blessed, everyone benefits from countless ruthless abuses. We can destroy the middle class goose that produced the golden eggs through its vast purchasing power but society shall continue to prosper because the robber barons and their narcissistic vassals will still be affluent, prestigious, and privileged.

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10 Ways to Keep Your Expectations From Making You Crazy This

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

Christmas is a wonderful time! Everyone is full of good cheer, the milk of human kindness and 20 pounds of candy. All gifts are given with love, are exactly the right size, are exactly the right color, or exactly the right thing for exactly the price you could afford. Right?

Well, if YOUR Christmas seems to fall short every year, here are some ways to keep your sanity and enjoy the unexpected joys that the season brings.

1. News Flash! You are not perfect! Nor is your family! Give up the myth that they should be!

2. Don’t make the season complicated! Simplify! While elaborate decorations may appeal to your decorating ego, putting them up takes time and energy that may be best spent elsewhere this Christmas.

3. Everything doesn’t have to be homemade. Pies, cakes and cookies are perfectly acceptable if they are bought at a bakery. And your children just might celebrate if you decide not to make that knitted scarf this year!

4. Relax. Take time out from the hustle and bustle to just sit with a cup of tea or cocoa and read. Or take a long hot bath. If you take some time for yourself, you will be better able to cope with the holiday chaos.

5. Let other people pitch in. You are not the only one who can do Christmas! Ask someone to do tasks you usually do, such as make the eggnog or cookies. And then LET THEM DO IT – even if they don’t do it just the way you want! Don’t constantly look over their shoulder.

6. Don’t make the season an ordeal for your children by expecting perfect behavior. Children can easily be overloaded with the food, sights, expectations and social whirlwind of the season. Again, simplify for their sake and yours!

7. If you can afford to hire a cleaning service before company comes for Christmas, do it! Give it to yourself as a Christmas present! You will enjoy the season more because you won’t be worn out from scrubbing that tile with a toothbrush!

8. If you can’t afford to pay cash for a gift, wait until next year to buy it. Save for the gift in the meantime. The short term thrill of buying the gift will be more than overpowered by the struggle to pay it off months into the new year.

9. Get out of the house and walk when you begin to feel stress. It will help you calm down and keep off those extra pounds. And it will give your family a break from you!

10. Don’t do guilt – to yourself and others. Don’t use your expectations of the season as a weapon against your friends and family. Enjoy what comes this season. It may not be what you expected – it may be better!

And remember – love doesn’t come wrapped in paper, or tied with a bow. You can’t get it for $19.95 if you call now or for two easy payments of only… you name the price. But love is but in the corners of a small child’s smile, the twinkle of a father’s eye or the drape of an arm across your shoulder. If you are expecting something else, you just might fail to recognize it! How crazy!

Pamela Cole Harris is an editor and writer with 35 years experience. Visit her website, http://www.homeandgardenmakeover.com, for her unique view of home decorating and remodeling (and a free monthly newsletter!). Or for original content unique to your website, written especially for your keywords and your audience, visit http://www.pamelacoleharris.com.

Secrets to Preserve Your Money with Your Self-drive

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

There is hardly nothing that matches the delight of renting a car when drivers are going on holiday or seeing the Luxury Broadbeach Appartment in Queensland, your automobile kicks the bucket, or Your need extra hauling space. Still, if drivers’re not careful of this extra will total at quite an additional . Car renting companies are not always wholly open about their terms, so people often end up paying very much more than the original charge per unit the hire company are cited. The safest path to deflect this scenario is to do your research before Your make the dealing and to be aware of your true needs.

When drivers look into compare car rentals, the need for homework can not be overstressed. Different car hire companies make diverse costs at various seasons, and if customers do not compare cars drivers may find that customers are paying more than you would have to with a other car hire companies. The easiest place to do this is on the Internet. A comparing site dosn’t solely show customers the cheapest terms but also customers might find a better automobile with a different company. In Point Of Fact, numerous companies will even grant special rate reductions to anyone who reserve their vehicles on the net. Additionally, there are many comparison websites where a customer will find several quotes straight off.
It is not sufficient, however, to simply equate prices between several companies. If manageable, you should also discover several dates. Even the identical company can sometimes charge disparate costs at various times. As a rule of thumb, week day prices are cheaper than bank holidays, and week day prices are even lower if drivers hire the vehicle long term.

Be perpetually suspicious of some price that seems exceptionally low. Often, these advertised costs are only base rates. When you add taxes, fees, and petrol fees, can sometimes more than triple in size. In addition, they could only be for certain places, dates, or vehicles. Thus, it is important to be sure that any comparison site customers visit shows customers the full price of your vehicle on the exact dates that drivers need it.

The cost of leasing can largely hike of a few extra features are requested on the application papers. car insurance comparison is one of the quickest ways to increment your toll.

Hiring a car doesn’t have to be confusing, nor does it have to become prohibitively expensive. If customers compare features and solely add the add ons customers really require, it can be a healthy experience all around.

Yee Peng Lit with Thai Lanterns

Saturday, November 28th, 2009

Asia is invariably full with celebrations, many of the most amazing of which go on in the South East. Not astonishingly Thailand is the base of Thai Lanterns and are today advancing in popularity as they hit a bigger audience.Yee Peng festival which follows the Buddhist Calendar and translates to month 12 is one of these festivals. The West Calendar ordinarily finds this falling in November. Loy Krathong is what you will pick up it referred to if you happen to be in new part of Thailand.The Thai people follow this religious festival and the traditions it demands. Freeing the ‘Khom Loy’ or ‘Thai Lanterns’ is my most treasured function of the event. Watching the Lanterns illuminate the nightsky is a truly brilliant vision to lay eyes on. Thai people believe that the going lantern is companied by any sufferings. The light is said to head people to a bright and complete living. I am not sure if westerners grasp the comparable belief but each year see’s many joining in on this fun event. Bamboo chassis with a Rice Paper shell is how these Thai Lanterns are manufactured in a biodegradeable way.Popularity has been on the rise (excuse the pun)

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Friday, November 27th, 2009

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Friday, November 27th, 2009

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Are You Still Hunting for those Ideal Eyeglasses?

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

Eyeglasses should be looked at in the same light as any other important fashion item you might want to wear. You naturally don’t wish to wear uncomfortable glasses and certainly don’t choose to own many or have to replace them frequently. Getting the right glasses is much easier when you know the varied pros and cons of rimless, rimmed and semi-rimless glasses. This means you will get the pair right first time with no stress!

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